Snoring and body size can raise suspicion. Other things affect the upper airway too: jaw and facial structure, tonsils, a blocked nose, age, hormone changes, sleeping position, and how easily a person wakes when breathing gets hard. Some people notice insomnia, a morning headache, fatigue, or trouble concentrating instead of obvious snoring.
A 2017 study of 163 people diagnosed with obstructive sleep apnea in a sleep clinic found that 25% had a BMI below 25 and 54% had a BMI below 30. This was one referred clinic sample, not a percentage that can be applied to everyone. Gray et al. study (PubMed).
Women may seek care for poor sleep, lasting headaches or mood changes, not because they've noticed loud snoring. The NHLBI lists daytime sleepiness, difficulty focusing, dry mouth, fatigue, headache, insomnia, and waking to urinate among possible symptoms. These symptoms are worth reporting when sleep does not restore you, even if the person does not recognize them as signs of a breathing problem. NHLBI symptom guide.
